Ok, so we have stuff. We're both adults and we have amalgamated a fine collection of kitchen, bedroom, bathroom, and living room items. We can, and will, get more of this stuff. We can buy things one at a time, we don't have to buy them in bulk - but we can't go to Europe one at a time, it has to be in bulk... in a manner of speaking. So instead of buying us a coffee maker or a couch that we already have, please contribute a nice dinner for us to have while we are in Europe, or a tour we could have, which we will really remember. We can buy a new tv later, our real memories will be from going to Europe together now.